My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we live together. Keep in mind that this gap is not just physical. There was no update and that annoyed me. He says hes all in and he knows he wants me. I had become pregnant by accident, due to the over active sex drive he had with me during that time, and we’re bldg. He wanted to know everything about me and what I had been doing. No, he didn't lose your number. the day after the date, I usually wait for the girl to text me, which she usually does by saying something like "thank you for the coffee/dinner, I had fun" or even just something very sly like "I barely got any sleep last night!". I’m having a really hard time with no contact. But honestly, if someone asks me about my plans, and I do not respond right away, I am probably having a difficult time committing or saying "no, thanks. the funny thing about starting it now, is everyone says 30 days is a good amount of time for yourself. He acts like he wants to speak to me when he see me but he just looks at me, he pretends to work on his car when I come outside, he stares at me, I’m not sure if he is stubborn or maybe he just doesn’t want me anymore he gives me mixed signals like one minute he likes me and the next he just acts another way. He stayed for 5 hrs and we hugged and said goodbye. Bear in mind that since he told you he was interested, he is actually interested. He wants(ed) to pursue this from the get go (not me) and never came on strong like a “Casanova” However, about a month ago I “terrorized” him with emails out of frustration (I know) – wrote one last one about 2. Over the past year, she has attempted to contact me over email, and text messages as well, and I have not. My Ex Text Me During No Contact Should I Respond? We often recommend for people to do a No Contact or even better a Radio Silence after a breakup. He requested for me to come in and speak with him to give my side, I have absolutely no idea what this could be about. Today I’m going to explain what you should do if your ex tries contacting you during the No Contact period. Who wouldn’t melt over a text like that? I’m so blessed to be with such a sweetie. It's going surprisingly well. Now out of no where he reappeared. Establishing, and then sticking to the no contact with a sociopath is extremely difficult, at best! However, it has to be done or the viscous cycle of hell you have been in will continue. Well nothing changed. He told me he liked hanging out and doing things, but he felt more of a friendship. He sends me a text here and there. He said he wanted to say thanks for help that I extended to him last Feb (when we were still FWB) I replied by saying "you're welcome" Did i do the right thing? Is he trying to be friends again? what are his intentions? Reply Delete. It includes no emailing, texting, or writing your ex boyfriend as well as no calling or seeing him. Ex texted me saying "Merry Christmas, _____!" so I texted back saying "Same to you". Respect the rules. Home→Forums→Relationships→After 6 months no contact received an apology New Reply This topic contains 6 replies, has 5 voices, and was last updated by Madonnika 5 years, 8 months ago. “Does he miss me? Does he regret what he did? Does he think about me?” Those questions have taken up more of my time and brain power than I ever think I’ll be comfortable enough to admit. By Amanda Katherine. After that I did another week of no contact when he texted me and asked if there was something wrong because one of his friends asked him if he had talked to me and I think he was worried so he texted me but the conversation turned ugly when I called him out on his feelings and he blew up at me saying he didn't love me anymore and there was. We do go to the same college and at the beginning of the year (in September) I had hooked up with another guy, and did not tell my ex boyfriend. He told me he wanted to take me out on a date when he was back in town. Things are going well for a few weeks. Basically, that means no calling, texting, sending emails or any other forms of contact. You see, in their mind they feel “entitled” to a response. I text him and told him how I felt and he didn’t even bother to pick up the phone to see if I was ok. I'm thinking of sending him a text, do you think he will find it annoying? He's the one initiating texts to me all the time. Ok so after 1 month of no contact I look at my phone on friday night and find a text from my ex this was about 8pm. How to Get Your Husband Back after He Leaves You. Yet, he has hooked up with other men for sex in the past. He was keeping his distance but not ignoring me. Either way, it is definitely possible to get your ex back — even if she has a new guy that she’s dating. This week's kinda shot, but give me a call next week, and we can talk more. She wasn’t the only one. Well nothing changed. Although you can never be 100% sure of what he is thinking, there are some tips that will ensure you he will always be thinking about you. I noticed her trying to make an eye contact with me more now when we speak, even though I seem to avoid it now. I went NC 3 weeks ago and he hasn’t contacted me since. He goes out of town often and I've noticed that he doesn't really contact me when he goes on trips. Totalally disagree based on my experiences. He had been despondent for several months, but said he wasn’t feeling well (he had been in a serious accident several years prior and had some problems). In this day & age the dude, if an honest bloke, would ring you!! If he was a lazy guy & texting was an issue, he would flick you a quick call, explain himself & tell you so. But if you read my other posts you will see I thought he was truly a nice guy. That Friday night he sent me a long text how he's not happy without me and realizes its him that needs to change. Well he's a sophomore in college and ever since he's left he literally texts me like 3 to even 4 times a week!!! One time a tornado touched down where I was at and he heard about it and I didn't have my phone with me and he texted me twice wondering if I was inside or not and I didnt text back in like 6 minutes and he went crazy. As a guy, I would NEVER, ever, ever call up another guy (or woman) friend, text him, or even dare mention to him, "I was thinking about you and just decided to tell you. "Texting during a show is unacceptable. Before you text an ex, try to honor a month-long "no contact rule" first. Whenever your ex is constantly talking about you during no contact, whether he speaks highly of you or down on you, it just shows he can’t move on, period. No contact is initiated as a way of breaking the psychic emotional bonds between you and a narcissistic partner, friend or family member. Patriots ax Antonio Brown amid sexual assault investigation after he was dropped by Nike and hours after head coach Bill Belichick stormed out of press conference when quizzed about the scandal. 44 The Vegetarian Episode August 28, 2011 // 0 Comments. 5 weeks ago. that he can help me in this situation, and i was a girl who dose not believe on spell, so the last time i called my man he picked my call, all i could hear from him is to tell me that he has got another girl in serious relationship i was so confuse and i called my friend (anna) and. Now it is me that has broken contact and this time he has lost me forever. He vanishes inexplicably. You heard about something that can help you get over your ex and it's call the no contact rule; you decide to give it a try. Another common reason why a guy could ignore a girl is that after the breakup, he simply just wants to move on. I chased him around with phone calls and texts and I pleaded and begged. Well he's a sophomore in college and ever since he's left he literally texts me like 3 to even 4 times a week!!! One time a tornado touched down where I was at and he heard about it and I didn't have my phone with me and he texted me twice wondering if I was inside or not and I didnt text back in like 6 minutes and he went crazy. Yet, rather than doing that, he instead decides to use the No Contact Rule and ends up totally ignoring her for 30 to 60 days. I called him after I got back but he didn’t answer. Then I applied the no contact rule and within two days he called me and started to come around with his emotions. Typically, they have the "she will have to call me first attitude. You think, “O, how hard to just ignore someone” Well think about no contact and how hard it is not to answer that phone or write back to an email when you want so bad to believe the lies. He dumped me over TEXT message. #wordsmatter. but you don't want to make plans and then have him call. I haven't texted back and this is the longest I've gone with out talking to him. I packed up everything I have at his house and left. I deleted his number i know the number I just don't want it on my phone. Even though he's moving on so fast he always give me signs that he wants me back but yet he has a girlfriend and says we need to stop talking and after i get upset he goes back to normal idk why he likes me to cry. Since he is a jerk when we go out to family dinners – he no longer gets included. The whole entire time when they were dating I was just his security blanket, and he used me for six. He has been feeling suicidal, which he dropped on me as we were walking into my parents house. Reading Your Ex Boyfriend's Current Attitude Toward You. Onward and upward. so i guess you can say it would be the test as to if he would text me back then or not and if i could handle it when he. What happened in between "I'll pick you up at 8pm" and "poof?" During the past ten years. ” I said “sounds good, looking forward to it,” and he responds, “Me too. The second time was Houston for Hurricane Harvey and then onto Florida for Irma. I just want this all fixed. Is he over it now that I gave him what he wanted or should I just text him. But don’t you worry, I eventually wore him down!” you’re pretty much free to call and. He texted back and said he would be out of town until June 1, then “we should make plans. He said he is happy to hear from me. A lot of the things he is doing now is telling our kids that I am crazy and that I kept him from them when I did no such thing. discussed at length on the home page of this website). We have opposite work schedules but he would make time for me as much as possible. Resolution for 2012: No contact with the ex. I did not make contact. As a result, she feels sad and rejected. Let's see how the no contact rule works with an ex so you can decide whether it's likely to be successful for you. A lot of people want to know what they should do if your ex contacts you while you're using the No Contact Rule. [ad]Sure, our shining star loves to send warmth and light your way, but when there's a threat to his dignity, he's just focused on himself. I’d rather a guy text me "hi im done w/ u, (It's no mystery why he called you "Marissa" during sex. To snag a man, let him do the chasing. We have opposite work schedules but he would make time for me as much as possible. My ex has not been involved with his younger son barely at all. As I teach in my No Contact Rule Book, some men are extremely stubborn and will refuse to be the one that reaches out first during the no contact period. He told me that he wanted me to text him everyday bc he just wanted to know I was okay. He said he wanted to say thanks for help that I extended to him last Feb (when we were still FWB) I replied by saying "you're welcome" Did i do the right thing? Is he trying to be friends again? what are his intentions? Reply Delete. HOME; ABOUT US. So I started texting back to the husband whenever he sent a text to me since last year. he cut his first call because i became furious(my infamous behaviour esp. Please text/call. She told me, “My ‘gut’ was telling me that things weren’t quite right, but Bob had convinced me that I was just paranoid and insecure. He was mean and offered no compensation for our losses, monetarily and emotionally. He always replied slow but in long messages and very happy way. But what should you do if your ex texts you. At the very least, you've wondered a few hundred times if he's missing you and if so, if he's missing you as much as you're missing him. When they are making contact with you during your "no contact" time, they definitely still love you. This is why guys like to be shown how you miss them. My ex contacted me during no contact… Find out what to do and how you should react right here in this amazing article in order to avoid all the common mistakes. We have just been married for 3 months and I don't want loose her. Grammarly allows me to get those communications out and. I initially don't answer then I pick up very nonchalantly, we chat for a minute then hang up. the day after the date, I usually wait for the girl to text me, which she usually does by saying something like “thank you for the coffee/dinner, I had fun” or even just something very sly like “I barely got any sleep last night!”. He always tell me in advance what he is busy during weekends. ) a cell phone approx. I wonder if my ex is even thinking about me during no contact at all. I am just not sure why he hasn't texted me when he seemed fine when I left and he even said he would text me and see me soon. After figuring out the mistake I went ahead and paid him $290 NOT $240 (without waiting for my refund of the original $290 from paypal). They like to take family photos at funerals. When I questioned if it was the initial of a new girlfriend he said no it was a new cousin. He said he'd be really busy over the next couple of weeks over the Christmas break and also his brother was getting married before new year. do i text him back or ignore it?. My reaction: I felt really pissed! If a loved one doesn’t call for months and then randomly sends me shit like ”I was climbing a roch yesterday” I would get super pissed! Wtf, no ”how are you? are you. Here are 7 tips to help you make him love you more than ever. This morning, no good morning, I know he's been up since 3am, b/c that's when he gets up for work, it's now 10:30am. A lot of the things he is doing now is telling our kids that I am crazy and that I kept him from them when I did no such thing. Whether it's a text or email, it's best to respond short and abrupt, if you even choose to engage at all. I wonder if my ex is even thinking about me during no contact at all. After that I did another week of no contact when he texted me and asked if there was something wrong because one of his friends asked him if he had talked to me and I think he was worried so he texted me but the conversation turned ugly when I called him out on his feelings and he blew up at me saying he didn't love me anymore and there was. Don’t panic. Every break up is different. It is been one week that we didn't talk to each other after he broke up with me,the day I left,he said we should not contact each other for one week to clear our mind,he already tried to break up with me a few times since the beginning of June,but I didn't agree and he still liked me,so we were. If you are on Day 7 of No Contact today, then you need to call her and get things moving along, before it’s too late. He see my son because works with him and also sees his grandson, my daughter will not talk to him and will not let him see grandaughter. It totally sucks when she’s not answering and calling or texting you back and instead of playing it totally cool, like we should, most of us freak out and lose our minds. Before you engage in the period of no contact, though, you’ll want to send a quick apology text message to your ex. 14 Ways to Shock Him (and Yourself) for the Good of You Both. He might not care about you as you think. He doesn’t do so now. Even though he’s moving on so fast he always give me signs that he wants me back but yet he has a girlfriend and says we need to stop talking and after i get upset he goes back to normal idk why he likes me to cry. An ex-boyfriend who is still e-mailing you, talking to you through Facebook, or going back and forth with text messages has not totally let go of your romance. I know that he's going to be busy with work while gone and also catching up with his friends. last week out of the blue text me think he was drunk as it didn’t make a lot of sense. By Amanda Katherine. so i guess you can say it would be the test as to if he would text me back then or not and if i could handle it when he. I say that I didn't want to bother him. Now that I am 6 months pregnant & demanding that he have contact with his son as it is effecting the way my son is acting out, they. I called him after I got back but he didn’t answer. But, as mentioned earlier, the main point of no contact is to gain clarity and strengthen yourself. So if you notice your man talking less when you are away, it could well indicate that he is missing you. We were talking about having a relationship but one thing led to another and we had sex. He denied it by text and told me I should trust him. He said he is happy to hear from me. the reason he broke up with me, (the reason he told me, that is) was because he doesnt love me anymore. He came close to hitting me while he was screaming at me. It's only one text but should I ignore it or text back. Towards the end though, he started to get distant and eventually our talks shortened over the past month. Your Ex Contacts You During No Contact - What to Do? Well, once again, this depends on two things. Then later he said let me call you next time. If you are unable to do this or you're feeling like you need to drop everything for your ex, then you probably aren't ready for contact and you should let your ex know this if they reach out to you. This post was published on the now-closed HuffPost Contributor platform. He said he'd be really busy over the next couple of weeks over the Christmas break and also his brother was getting married before new year. The No Contact Rule- A period of time (which you select) in which you completely ignore your ex in every way imaginable. Jurors paid rapt attention as prosecutors displayed texts by Guyger. I’m letting her do what she wants but I’m going back to n/c. #wordsmatter. First of all, if you suspect your ex is going to call you during the no-contact period, it's a good idea to let them know beforehand that you don't want any communication for a short period of time. It was like a switch was flipped. i was no contact with my ex, for a month now and wasn’t even that fussed about contacting hm, as i knew he would start the games or ignore me, he has sent me a few emails but i ignored them, till today, i only need to contact him about the house as he is agreeing to sign it over to me, but its taking longer than i thought and the cost. I’m sticking to n/c. After you have properly. Another guy was actually chatting me up when he saw me and came over to say hi, so we didn't really get to chat because he excused himself immediately after giving me a hug. We agreed to text during the holidays- but other then that, no contact. No explanation other than he needed to get his thoughts and emotions straight. If you are using a high-end smartphone like an iPhone, you will hardly experience any issue like no sound during a call on the iPhone. After you have properly. My wife just told me our marriage is over; My wife just told me our marriage is over. A crowd of. But what should you do if your ex texts you. He called me later as promised, and he apologised again. I said, “Ok, no problem. My brother ignored it, and I've been no contact for six months, broken up for seven. In the end, I learned which ones actually cared about me to start off with. I just said, ‘I’m still smiling. The following day he texted me for the first time since I broke contact five months ago to say it was nice to run into me and that we should meet for lunch soon. Should you answer the phone? Reply to that email? Or should you just keep doing No Contact and make them suffer for once? Trust me, I’ve been there myself. A text is a call, a fast reply means he really likes us, a slow one gets us worried. Then out of nowhere she texted me! She wanted to talk and see if we can work things out. I woke up early and checked his facebook page. He has so many pictures of me & texts that was between the two of us in his phone and I feel like if he gets mad that might be the first thing he use to hurt me. You need to continue living your own life and following the lessons learned during active no contact. He came close to hitting me while he was screaming at me. I’ve just came to and end of a relationship with a narcitisst. The "no contact" rule is important for a number of reasons, chief of which is that it is the most effective coping mechanism to help you move on. I figured I would hear from him later that night but didn’t. Then I applied the no contact rule and within two days he called me and started to come around with his emotions. He only replies when I message him, but when I tell him that "maybe I'll message him later" he always tells me, "he's, text me later for sure" and then I text him (usually he's at work and I get he's busy sometimes, but he's texted me all night some nights) but it's so hard to keep a conversation going with him. Some sent text messages, and some reached out over social media in hopes of being friends. He is aware that there is no universal guide that you can apply to every relationship. An ex who calls or text-messages you post-relationship is looking to keep you in his life. Anyways we did the no contact and he messaged me one time and then be stopped then he would message me then stop again finally he randomly called me and we discussed things and it seemed cool and we started to talk however I get the feeling he thinks I’m trying to hard. He said that he just felt bad for not giving me the time I deserve. However, many more would be rich if we had a nickel every time we heard a client with a protection order against him (or her) say, “but she (or he) texted me first!”. Over the past year, she has attempted to contact me over email, and text messages as well, and I have not. I started ignoring my man and I see that it has helped our relationship, going on for acouple of months now and it is a lot better then it was…. It's called the "no contact rule". Keep in mind that this gap is not just physical. 7 Things To Do During A Relationship Break That Make The Most Of The Time Apart. He claims that because she initiated the sex, it wasn’t his fault. I consider it out of place, and the fact. in the final 2 months of that year, he never contacted me anymore. At the very least, you've wondered a few hundred times if he's missing you and if so, if he's missing you as much as you're missing him. by hooking up with a new guy and falling in love with him). Some guys are thankful that the relationship is over with, while other guys regret their mistakes. The No Contact Rule- A period of time (which you select) in which you completely ignore your ex in every way imaginable. I just said, ‘I’m still smiling. So we started talking after he gave me his number and I gave him mine. Unfortunately, one thing that I have never done is write about what men are thinking AFTER the no contact rule. But don’t you worry, I eventually wore him down!” you’re pretty much free to call and. The only problem is that there isn’t any substitute for the No Contact Method, and it’s almost always a key component of any effective strategy to get a fresh start with your ex. I felt perfect about everything. He tells me he won’t talk to me ever again/won’t talk to me for a. things was getting wost a friend told me to contact dr dove. "Harassment" is legally defined as repeated, unwanted contact. So far, you have been doing well and avoided all types of communications with your ex and concentrate on your own life. CEO; SERVICES. Whether it's a text or email, it's best to respond short and abrupt, if you even choose to engage at all. On day 15 of no contact, my ex texted me. His last text after we hung up said, we will talk soon Silly head, You are an amazing woman. Even though we’re a full decade into the Texting Revolution, our tiny missives are sometimes rude, sometimes girly, and always confusing. Anyway, the last time I saw him was Wednesday 2/7. When the day we're Broked up he said that I can be his friend and that makes me sick, sad because I can't just like that, two weeks ago, he texting me that he misses me, my hug, my kisses etc. It's been almost 30 days NC. I decided no contact from me at this point is best. proof of his abuse because He does not respond to me via text or email and he only contacts me and cusses me out and to Graves and. , but when we talked he'd still be. I actually thought he was going to send me a text on Valentine's Day but he didn't. The quintessential Southern gentleman, Mac had always been chivalrous, respectful and loyal. Because of that, I’ve compiled a list of ways to move on when you’re still in love with your ex. Until he mentioned that if I found out about his bucket list I’d definitely dump him. I went NC 3 weeks ago and he hasn’t contacted me since. " With that said When he says he is thinking about you - it means he wants to see you again among other things. When your boyfriend breaks up with you, the first thing you may want to do is to call him, tell him how you feel, and hope that he's going to want you back. Remember those great times you had together? He is probably reminiscing about those times as well and that is why your ex texted you. A Civil No Contact Order protects victims of rape, sexual assault, or sexual abuse from the abuser. He doesn't call these days. By then, Schiffman and her. When your boyfriend gets wind of this he'll immediately wonder what he was doing with you in the first place, because it seems a little pathetic that you can't go on without him. So, since you don’t know what the no contact rule is I am going to give you a quick crash course. It's called the "no contact rule". After texting back and forth for several hours, he asked if he could call me. I thought it was ridiculous because I knew he was on social media and that he DID have time to text me. I'm a guy and I'll tell you this. The next day he texted to say he was almost home in his other town. Text-to-911 is the ability to send a text message to reach 911 emergency call takers from your mobile phone or device. I have had no contact with Barnaby Joyce at all over this until he texted me during #insiders and I asked via text to read it out rather than keep texts on issues of. She broke it off with me at one year saying that we were not moving forward and I wasn't opening up and was becoming distant. I truly believe he feels the loss of me but I cannot go back with a man who blows in and out of my beautiful life bringing me so much pleasure and the next week so much pain. It has been a week and he has tried to text/call a few times. He came to 5 basketball games and i went to almost every one since 7th grade. and i believe it has something to do with being blindsided. Ladies, This Is The Only Thing You Should Do When A Guy Doesn't Text Back. I have been no contact with the woman who gave birth to me for 2 years now. He always replied slow but in long messages and very happy way. 7 Things To Do During A Relationship Break That Make The Most Of The Time Apart. Tracking you down during the no contract rule. He requested for me to come in and speak with him to give my side, I have absolutely no idea what this could be about. You would think they are being cold, or just plain ignoring you, so you feel like crap. It’s been a week and. Say you texted "Merry Christmas" and got no response. Ex texted me saying "Merry Christmas, _____!" so I texted back saying "Same to you". After a few days/weeks of "No Contact" you get a surprise "I love you" text with a smiley. My boyfriend has left me and my heart is broken. I can’t think of anything more painful or heartbreaking than hearing your husband say “I don’t love you anymore. Monday the 20th rolls around and he texted me asking about the money and said to just pay $240 of the $340 asap. He also was on vacation and we ended up texting and skyping the whole week. No Contact Rule:Five Things You Can Do Right Now Instead of Calling, Texting, or Cyber Stalking Your Ex, 3. You are the person who is best placed to figure out what he is thinking about. when he was high, and then, when I stopped responding, started in with the phone calls. He just texted me a week ago and said he didn't want to get back together but that he was sorry for the mess and the heartache. Although, she continues to text me, pretending everything is fine and I am just “busy”. I started no contact and 10 days into it he text me saying he hoped I had a good weekend and that I had a chilled week ahead, why is he texting me? Does he even care? I text back and said, I had a great weekend, hope he did too, have had no contact since, what is he thinking? Does he care or not I’m so confused, why would he text me when I. I have been no contact with the woman who gave birth to me for 2 years now. I have anxiety and I’ve been battling depression for sometime. Please text/call. Next day no text no call. The last thing you want is to end up humiliating yourself or worse yet, ruining your chances of getting him back and pushing him into the arms of another woman. So what do you say when your ex contacts you during no contact (or after no contact)? It depends on what they say and if your ex keeps texting you, but in general you should respond to an ex boyfriend or girlfriend's text by being happy and lighthearted. Your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is going through different levels of thought, confusion, missing you, and doubt during no contact. Amber Guyger witness Joshua Brown was shot dead during 'drug deal gone wrong' in attack unrelated to the killer cop, say police, as they arrest one man, search for two more and reveal the dead man. The reality is they have no real self, it has all been an illusion, you are strong and capable and everything that he said you were he is in fact just that. and before he leaves he tells me I can text him not exclusive yet. I feel like i'm chasing him and I really don't want to I know he's been busy with work,but he cant even contact me first to say hello,but he can contact his friends. When a relationship ends, your interest isn't returned, or you're dealing with a commitment-shy person, the sense of rejection that results tends to cause us to continue […]. Well I'm on day 10 of no contact and have little hope that he's going to suddenly decide he misses me and contact me after this much time. It will be a week tomorrow since we have spoke. I refuse to be part of that world. Many BR readers are currently going through breakups, which may include No Contact – this is essentially closing your door on the relationship by cutting contact and distancing yourself, so that you have a chance to gain objectivity, break an unhealthy partnering, and gradually rebuild your life. I waited a few days to reply. that he can help me in this situation, and i was a girl who dose not believe on spell, so the last time i called my man he picked my call, all i could hear from him is to tell me that he has got another girl in serious relationship i was so confuse and i called my friend (anna) and. In it, you will learn five ridiculously effective ways to pull on his heartstrings, make him miss you, and keep dying to spend more time with you. It is emotional and mental as well, which is to be expected after the breakup. He texted back and said he would be out of town until June 1, then “we should make plans. Are you wondering if your network, or his, is down, or if there was a zombie apocalypse only in his part of town and that's why he hasn't texted you back. It's responding with dignity and strength which are attractive qualities and is why no contact works. We have no contact now. He hasn't texed me or called me since we had sex. By Amanda Katherine. if he's worth waiting around for, and if you REALLY love him, then. Yes, it is plausible that I all of a sudden got busy. It's a combination of both. This video contains information on what to do when your ex texts you during no contact or when your ex calls, messages you on social media, or reaches out to you in another way while you are in no. You’ve had a couple of dates with a new guy – and you really, really like him. On day 15 of no contact, my ex texted me. He acts like he wants to speak to me when he see me but he just looks at me, he pretends to work on his car when I come outside, he stares at me, I’m not sure if he is stubborn or maybe he just doesn’t want me anymore he gives me mixed signals like one minute he likes me and the next he just acts another way. again he came back and while we were talking he gave me a hint about the girl and interest in having 3 sum (no way) SO without saying anything very nicely I hung up and went no contact for few days. He also has two children who I’m sure would toss me. I haven't texted back and this is the longest I've gone with out talking to him. I've debated heavily over reaching out to my ex as there were things I didn't say to her that I wanted to when she broke up with me a month ago. If you break the rule and send a quick hello text message, you have broken the no-contact rule and it becomes void. He didn’t text back or call me. I was nervous and decided to ask his advice via text. but you don't want to make plans and then have him call. When we’re together, his phone, I’ve noticed, is never in use. He called his ex, and wanted comfort and me being the nice friend that I am, picked up and we talked. Booty Call? Just A Friend? What His Texts Say About How He Feels. I thought it was ridiculous because I knew he was on social media and that he DID have time to text me. I asked if he wanted this to be over and he said not to pressure him. 7 days after he sent me long text about how he will love me till death – another girl (10 years younger, no education,totally different than me) posted a picture in the apartment. So I thought I would talk about why it’s so hard for us to do. I have been no contact with the woman who gave birth to me for 2 years now. And we’re behind the curve when it comes to texting like thissss.